tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080988064692203884.post7255391530052216161..comments2024-01-03T03:07:59.779-08:00Comments on Chronicles of Toompi: An AnniversaryKaitlinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14591576350422074998noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080988064692203884.post-8127491108844993972011-02-28T20:01:14.000-08:002011-02-28T20:01:14.000-08:00Big hugs to you today.Big hugs to you today.Caseyhttp://naptimechronical.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080988064692203884.post-73473036403686632872011-03-19T21:42:34.000-07:002011-03-19T21:42:34.000-07:00Monica, I am equally sorry you didn't get to m...Monica, I am equally sorry you didn't get to meet your babies. I do not know how it is to lose a baby early on and so I too cannot say how it must feel. I was not intending to sound as though my loss was more important than anyone else's or more painful. Like you, I only know how it felt to me. I suppose what I should say is that it was just so unexpected since i was so far along and the fact that if she had been born alive she could have lived, not as if I were a mere 12 weeks. Does that make sense? Either way, I'm so sorry if I offended you.Kaitnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080988064692203884.post-43862036945859212782011-03-19T20:18:41.000-07:002011-03-19T20:18:41.000-07:00First of all I want to say I am sorry for your los...First of all I want to say I am sorry for your loss. Nobody should ever have to experience losing a child. I cannot say I know how it felt and still feels to you because everyone's experience is different and everyone grieves differently. I do want you to know, however, that just because a loss may be early, it does not necessarily make it easier. I have had early and late losses and no one has been any easier than the others. Every loss dashed the hopes and dreams I had for my child - not "only a small bit of nothing," or a "bud of human life" but my child... Children I loved, children I wanted, children I would have given my life for - my babies.monicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2080988064692203884.post-4284545184786752892011-03-26T19:17:30.000-07:002011-03-26T19:17:30.000-07:00Sorry! I wasn't trying to insinuate that you h...Sorry! I wasn't trying to insinuate that you had offended me... I figured you probably had not experience an early loss... I experienced two early losses (8 and 12 weeks) and a later loss (20 weeks). I think what I was trying to say came across wrong... I am sorry!moncia veronoreply@blogger.com